Volume 2, Issue 2
April 2002

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* A Word from the Director - Continue Your Journey
* Field Perspective on the events of September 11th.
* Book Review: How to Stay Christian in College
* Quotes to Remember
* Adult TCK Magazine, “Among Worlds”

“Quotes to Remember”

Transitions are tunnels that connect the castles of life…they are intended to be traveled through not lived in.
Donna Cole

Every morning in Africa, a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must run faster, than the fastest lion or it will be killed.

Every morning a lion wakes us. It knows it must run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death.

It doesn’t matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle; when the sun comes up you had better be running.

Published by Perry Bradford, Director of MU KAPPA International
A Word from the Director - “Continue Your Journey”
In a few short weeks many of you will be closing another chapter in your journey of life. You will be graduating from college and taking a the next step on the road of life. For some of you there is a bit of uncertainty that lies ahead. You have a four or maybe five year degree in an area of study...but you are not sure what lies ahead. You wish God would open the doors so wide that you could drive a truck through it...but there is only a small crack and you can only see a glimpse of what is on the other side. I’ve a word of encouragement for you...that comes from a familiar passage of Scripture.

Proverbs 3: 5 & 6 - “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path.”

These are some of the easiest Bible verses to memorize...but they are some of the most difficult verses to live. Yet I would remind you that this stage of transition that you find yourself in right now, is one that God has seen for your whole lifetime. He has been watching you and guiding you each step of the way and He wants to continue to do that. I guess the question we all have to ask ourselves at times like these is simple, “Will we trust in Him and lean on Him for the next step or will we lean on our own understanding?” Let me encourage you to lean on Jesus...He has broad shoulders and He is waiting to guide you the rest of the way.

This passage of scripture has been my life verse. I memorized it when I was a young boy and I’ve tried to live by it since then. I’m pleased to say that for the most part I’ve been able to stick by these words. Yet there have been times that I’ve tried to take issues and problems into my own hands and I’ve totally left Christ out of the picture. As I look back on those times, I’ve come to realize that it is much safer to lean on the Lord than it is to lean on myself. I can truly say through experience that when I’ve trusted in Him and given myself to Him...that He truly has directed me. What a great promise! I can also say that God has never broken His promise to me and I know He will do the same for you.

So, to you seniors who are moving out into the world...I say, “Trust in the Lord, with all your heart and in all your ways acknowledge Him” and believe me...He will direct you each step of the way. He will guide you in your choice of a job or ministry. He will guide you in your choice of a mate and He will guide you at each turn in the road...even when the way is not so clear. May the Lord bless you as you continue your journey for Him.

 

An MK Field Perspective on the events of September 11th
(The following essays were written in December 2001 by students attending El Camino Academy in Bogotá, Colombia. I appreciate their field perspective on the events of 9/11.)

On Tuesday, September 11, 2001, I felt moved in every sense by the tragedy that affected the entire world. I experienced a mixture of sadness, shock, surprise, and horror. It was so mind-boggling to think that the most secure country in this world had been attacked and strongly impacted. It was and still is a strange thought to grasp. The fact that I am probably safer in guerrilla-infested Colombia than in the "Land of Freedom." I cannot come to understand how humanity can be so immensely corrupt that people can kill their own species in such quantity without a twinge of guilt. I felt so saddened by this event, not only because of the loss of life, but because I realized that there seriously is no hope for this world. People are so bitter and angry that love no longer has much meaning. God is the only solution to the chaos that exists right now. Because of this I decided to seek God in a more intense way by fasting and praying. Through this I could feel like I had some influence on the world because one feels so helpless in these times of great need. God revealed many personal issues and also softened my heart towards humanity. I cannot say that this experience of seeing the world come to end in such a horrid manner has been easy, but I do feel relieved to know that somehow God is still in control and is working in some peoples lives through this. I have matured in my knowledge of world events because I actually want to see the news at night. I am feeling the reality of the world events and it is not a mere fantasy that leaves my life untouched. I think that the only way to handle this situation is with an attitude of prayer, because God is truly the only one who has a grasp on this life.
Tandi

My father once told me that there was one thing that he remembered in his childhood that he would never forget. It was when President Kennedy was assassinated. I remember severally years ago he told me all the details. Where he was, who told him, and what he then did. I could not understand what this really meant and why he could never forget it.

September 11, 2001 started off a day like any other, but now remains permanently engraved in my memory. I will never forget where I was and what I was doing when I was informed that a crisis was developing.

After a relatively normal English class that Tuesday morning, our HS history class began. The school director interrupted the beginning of class. Immediately we knew that something was wrong. At first I thought something big had happened in Colombia. However, I was wrong, she informed us that an airplane had hit one of the towers of the world trade center, and that 15 minutes later the second tower had been hit. Now, she said, one of the towers had collapsed and the second was about to. I was immediately excused from class. The entire secondary crowded around a television set and looked on in dismay. The images we saw look like those of some kind of action thriller, not real life. There were conflicting reports. At first they were very dire, the local news networks are often inaccurate and frequently pessimistic also. At first they said about 100,000 were feared dead in the trade center complex. Those figures were mind-boggling. While the teachers tried to maintain the schedule, it was decided that the last 10 minutes of every class would be spent watching to TV for anything new. The time in class was spent talking about what had happened. At the end of the day, when all was said and done, I felt fearful of what more could happen. Wednesday, nothing happened. All the students had trouble concentrating in class but nothing more happened. At that point I realize how proud I was to be American. There were many editorials written in the subsequent days, and I enjoyed the ones on American patriotism. The one that touched me the most was, "Well, you hit the world trade center but you missed America. You hit the pentagon but you missed America. You used helpless American bodies to take out other helpless American bodies but like a poor marksman you still missed America." I am proud to be an American, and it makes me feel wonderful that now America is banding together to fight this evil.
A.J.

On September 11th a great tragedy occurred. Four planes were hijacked by then unknown terrorists and three of them were flown, on kamikaze missions, into the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center and the Pentagon. The fourth plane was crashed into the ground near Pittsburgh, PA. It is believed that the passengers or pilots regained control long enough to stop it from continuing its journey to a target in Washington. By the day’s end, President Bush was promising retaliation and a world war on terrorism.

Just about every country worldwide joined the US in its condemnation of the attack and pledged their support.

I live in Bogotá, Colombia, South America and I am a senior at a missionary kid school. Even though there are many different nationalities and backgrounds, the majority of my classmates consider the US their home. The news came to us in our US History class. We had no teacher in the room at the time. The principal of the school walked in. She announced that the two planes had crashed. Our first thought, living in a country that has been in civil war for the past 30 years , was “Is this close enough to Bogotá for the school to dismiss early?” (Which has happened here before.) But then she continued and informed us that the World Trade Center had collapsed, killing many. At break we set up a TV in one of the rooms to watch the news. A friend and I went to the computer room to look at CNN.com, because we did not completely trust the Colombian TV and our translation of it. For the rest of the day it was the only topic of conversation in any class. In the days that followed we had many class discussions about the US policy toward Afghanistan. I personally believe that the US is justified in their search for justice. I am glad that they recognize that the Taliban is responsible for hiding Bin Laden and not the common people of Afghanistan. One day on the way to school we had a family discussion about our response as Christians. We concluded that this conflict is basically between two religions, or belief in two different gods. As Christians we know the one and only true God and have a personal relationship with Him. Then as a solution my dad brought up a story in the Bible about a conflict between the god Baal, who the Israelites were worshiping, and the true God. The prophet at the time was Elijah. He proposed a “tournament” between God and Baal. In that story they put bulls on the altar for the sacrifice. In the case of Israel, the bull represented their sins. The god who answered was the one who could forgive or take away the sins. In present times, a bull is not relevant, so Christians today must have something else to offer in this show of power. I believe that it must be whatever is holding us back from serving God whole-heartedly. But if we live all out for God then more and more people will be convinced that we are not hypocrites that condemn everyone in public and practice those same acts in private. In conclusion I believe that the solution of capturing and punishing Osama bin Laden will only be temporary. The lasting solution will be showing the true love of God to the Islamic people. We were called to love everyone, even our enemies. This means loving the person and hating their sin.
Nathan

 

Book Review: “How to Stay Christian in College”
Do you struggle with maintaining your Christian testimony at school? If so, then I’d like to recommend a very practical and interactive guide to keeping the faith. J. Budziszewski discusses the foundations of the Christian faith, and directly addresses different world views and myths that students encounter at college. This book is filled with quotes, statistics, resources, stories and encouragement, it will equip you to conquer the dangers that lie ahead.

When you go to college, you’re leaving behind your network of support and heading to a world with different perspectives, responsibilities and expectations. Even if you’re going to a “Christian” college, there’s no guarantee you won’t face challenges to your faith. “How to Stay Christian in College” can help you think through the issues for yourself and come up with a belief system that is based on Scripture, rather than the cultural norms of society.

This book is available though NavPress, www.navepress.

 

Adult TCK Magazine - “Among Worlds”
I’d like to introduce you to an excellent resource that you might want to take advantage of, “Among Worlds”. Among Worlds is a quarterly magazine that is produced by Interaction International. The mission of Among Worlds is to excel as the premier publication to encourage adult TCKs and to fill a need that is real among TCKs by addressing issues that are relevant. Some of the topics that have been addressed in some of the earlier issues are: Values in the life of a TCK, Bitterness and Anger in TCKs, Relationships, Dating, Transcultural marriages.

The publisher of Among Worlds is Matt Neigh. Matt is a TCK who grew up in Austria. I have had the privilege of working closely with Matt for a few years and I know that his desire is to see this publication reach as many TCKs as possible. I would highly recommend this resource to you. I have included a single copy of the March 2002 issue in the Mu Kappa mailing this month. If you would like to take a look at it, you’ll need to contact your faculty advisory, who has the actual copy. Again, I would encourage you to take a look at it...you won’t regret it.

The subscription cost is only $16.00 for the whole year. That is a new issue every three months! If you would like to order this resource directly you can contact Among Worlds at P.O. Box 26643, Colorado Springs, CO 80936-6643, or you can email your request to them at amongworlds@tckinteract.net.

While I have your attention I’d like to mention another resource that Interaction International makes available to Adult TCKs...that is their ATCK Seminars. These are regional seminars that are presented by Matt Neigh on various issues related to life as an adult third culture kid. The seminars usually begin on Friday evening and continue all day on Saturday. If you are interested in taking part in one of these seminars...you can check out the dates and locations by visiting Interactions website at www.tckinteract.net.

Again...I think you will find these seminars to be very informative as they provide an excellent opportunity to meet other TCKs from your area and also give you some solid help in understanding your life as a TCK.

Take advantage of these resources...you won’t regret it!!!